Coptic Orthodox Patriarchate THE FAMILY AND MONEY
Bishopric of Youth Bookstore
Number 34
by HG Abba Moussa The Bishop of Youth
Although money is a gift from God and has an important role in our lives, it is a root cause of all the recent
conflicts at the individual, family, and international levels. The Bible has established basic principles for using money to promote human happiness and serve mankind. These principles have been defined to
prevent us from making money into another god and worshipping it. What are these principles?
1. Money is a Gift |
2. Money is Not Essential for Life Hence life - and health too - is a gift of God. All our efforts to live or to enjoy good health can fail, for whatever we spend or however far we travel to achieve these goals,
life is from Him and health is from Him. We strive within our limitations to have a good life, but we are sure that money cannot give it to us. 3. Money is Not Essential for Happiness Hence, we ask: "Can we buy happiness with money?" Impossible, for on the contrary, too much money has often caused the unhappiness of its owners. They worry about how they can keep it, invest
it, and use it to make themselves happy with a false happiness, and so end up doing what is wrong. 4. Money is Transitory 5. Money Is a Talent So what is required is that we invest the money to the glory of Jesus
Christ and in the comfort and salvation of our fellow human beings, especially those in the faith. "It is more lessed to give than to receive." (Acts 20: 35). The more we give, the more blessings we
have. "The generous soul will be made rich, and he who waters will also be watered himself." (Prov. 11: 25). In fact, many who were rich were also rich in faith and good works and rendered humanity innumerable
services. We are stewards over :unrighteous mammon (Lk. 16: 1- 15). This means that money does not belong to us but is a gift of God exactly like the money that the unjust steward used to buy friends
with. It was not his money but belonged to his master and he used it to purchase friends. Although what he did was wrong because he took what was not his, the Lord asks us to learn from the " the sons of this
age" how to invest what is the Lord's to invest in gaining friends who will pray for us. The Lord has entrusted us with this money so let us use it wisely and conscientiously. We
take of it what we need and leave the rest to God to use as He sees fit, maybe to serve someone who is needy, or to meet an emergency. The Lord forbids our extravagance: "The drunkard and the glutton will come to
poverty" (Prov. 23: 21). He encourages us to take up the pieces left over to serve others (Mt. 15: 37).
6. Money Is Not to Be Depended Upon The problem lies in considering money as a pillar in life and a support for the future. This doesn't mean that we should not save,
for saving is different from depending on money. Saving means keeping the excess money aside and offering it to God to use as He wills, either for service or in an emergency.
We must believe that God is essentially our sole supporter while money is not, for "He who trusts in his riches will fall" (Prov. 11: 28). 7. Money Is Not to Be Craved When God said: "No servant can serve two master.... you cannot serve both god and mammon" (Lk. 16: 13), He meant that the love of money is opposed to the worship of God.
8. Enough is Enough! Having enough should be the
norm: "Give us this day our daily bread." This is a contented comfortable life lived to the glory of God. God wants us to be happy, not miserable. He gave us the right to have enough.
But as for pleasure, "She who lives in pleasure is dead while she lives" (1 Tim. 5: 6). As for what people admire and pursue, "All that is in the world- the lust of the flesh, the lust of the
eyes, and the pride of life - is not of the Father but is of the world. and the world is passing away, and the lust of it (1 Jn. 2: 16 -17). 9. Planning a Budget
For God: the 'firstfruits', the tithes, and the vows. The spirit of understanding, generosity, love, and justice must prevail in this matter. Many families have broken up because of money, even though it should not have so much weight in our lives. END |
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