Coptic Orthodox Patriarchate THE FAMILY AND TELEVISION
Bishopric of Youth Bookstore
Number 35
by HG Bishop Moussa The Bishop of Youth
"Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. for what fellowship has righteousness with
lawlessness and what communion has light with darkness? and what accord has Christ with Belial? or what part has a believer with an unbeliever? For you are the temple of the living God." (2Cor. 6:
14-18). There is no doubt that the world has witnessed rapid progress in the mass media. Within a few years,we have witnessed the progress of TV from black and white to color, followed by the
development of video which makes it possible to record movies that we can watch whenever we like. There have also been developments in broadcasting. The French are in revolt against the tyranny of the American TV programs
that have spread the ideas, the culture, and the undesirable values of the American society to France. They are afraid they might lose the French identity in spite of its culturally distinguished
heritage. And now we face what can be transmitted via satellite for 24 hours to our TV channels. Thus, we need to study with an open mind the effects of the mass media on the
Christian family and how we can face them. |
A. The Effect of TV on the Family TV affects the family in at least two ways: a. There is no doubt that TV keeps the family from important matters that are essential to the salvation of its members. One proof of that is that we are sometimes forced to
reschedule Sunday School classes and youth meetings in order not to conflict with a movie or a football match. TV takes up a lot of our time and attention and this affects our spiritual intake whether in individual,
family, or public worship. b. Some TV programs are stumbling blocks to the Christian because of some of their unsuitable subject matter. Their moral values are in conflict with the sublime standards of
Christianity and their principle different from those of our faith. Their stimulation of the senses is opposed to Christian dignity and chastity. 2. The Social Aspect 3. The Cultural Aspect 4. The Behavioral Aspect A novelist once wrote a book about a person who
committed all kinds of crimes then felt that they did not fulfill him and so repented and started leading a good life. The cinema producer, however, only took the first part and made a great artistic effort to show the man's
evil deeds and omitted the last part in which he repents. The film was shown all over the world bearing the name of the wronged author.
B. How to Face These Influences 1. Spiritual Fullness Christ is a great power Who saves man from the power of the flesh, the world,
and the devil. He gives us victory over evil in all its forms, and enables us to resist forbidden pleasures, no matter how tempting they may be. We need to restore the fallen family altar and gather our
children round the Bible, hymns, and prayers. We need to go with them to partake of Holy Communion and to attend church meetings. We should watch over their spiritual growth. Then it will
be easy for them to make the right choices. Inner emptiness is the reason behind the excessive attraction of television. The person who is full of grace will watch the
little that is useful in it and will reject what is useless. 2. Cultural Fullness We need to make a new push towards reading in order to stimulate our minds and fill our lives with holy enthusiasm for constructive pursuits, leaving youth little time for wrongdoing, A cultured person
possesses an inner wealth that makes him shun superficialities and choose only those useful programs and books that will build him up.
3. Constructive Selectivity The
Christian possesses an inner enlightenment through the Spirit of God which makes us "Test all things; hold fast to what is good" (1 Thes. 5: 21). He weighs matters in the light of three verses: He enjoys inner freedom, reading, studying, discussing, observing, or traveling abroad and "In all these things we are more than conquerors through Him Who loved us" (Rom. 8: 37). Let us lead, with our children, a fulfilling spiritual life, a life that builds them up culturally. Let us have with them a dialogue that will form their consciences and their personalities in Christ, so that they
are not like a feather that the wind blows every which way. Instead they will be filled with the fullness of God and will lead a life of faith and holiness that will be a witness to Christ their
Savior. And to our Lord be glory for ever, Amen END |
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